Saturday, March 29, 2008

On living...

Life is fair, but in my case life is not too fair, I love but lost, I tried but i failed, I live but i died.
I don't know if i am making any sense but this is what i feel, It seems as if life is not in my side, as if life simply don't want me around and its trying to make me quit by throwing all the bad things it can throw at me.
For so long i tried to hide but i learned my lesson in a painful way, there's no use in hiding, you have to face life and battle it face to face, try you're luck and make a choice, to remain a coward or face it and get the chance to win.
Chances are you will lost a hundred times but there will always be a chance for you to triumph, In my case I lost in this battle but i learned something, keep hiding and these bad things just pile up and might drown you, face it and chances are you can win. The only way to survive is to fight, to take a stand and stop being a coward, face the problem and find a solution, that is the only way to survive.
You are given natural defenses in this war, your friends are your allies, learn to share and trust them, learn to explore the weaknesses of your opponent by learning from the previous experiences of others, though no two things are alike, but you can always learn from them and slowly learn your move.
Your ability to think is your main weapon, use it wisely and try not making any false move, figure out every step, think the prose and cons, weight your options and if things point out positively then its your chance to charge.
Life is fair if you know how to use your defenses, do not expose yourself to the possibility of losing, point out your goal and you can live life to the fullest.

3 comments:

footiam said...

Now, you are talking, Terence. When you talk, you live. Life is unfair; that means, someone else is getting the better deal. Why not it be you? If it gonna be someone else, and that someone else is someone you love, then perhaps, you should rejoice.You have fought and you have thought you lost but you won an experience, and You won in knowing you lost. You would in future in meeting someone better.

terrence said...

footiam... thank you... you had been very helpful, thank you for listening

footiam said...

You are welcome, Terence. Cheer up, won't you?